Do you ever ask yourself the question? Why do women break up with men? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. And you’ll wonder why, because he treated her great and really seemed to worship her.

Have you been told that “nice guys finish last”? Well, that statement is partially true. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. If you appear to be madly in love with her, she will think you have some sort of problem.

Is it that way with all women? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But there are a lot of women who tend to use the “grass is always greener” thought process. The best guy for them is the one just around a corner.

What happens when a lady ends the relationship for no reason? The number one rule is NO CONTACT, not by phone, email, or in person. Blinded by her own selfishness, she was unable to see what you had to offer.

Try not to act like you’re devastated, but instead get back out in the world. Go out with friends, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is good because you just might find a woman out there who has the self assurance to appreciate what you offer.

The reality check is deciding whether or not you can handle a relationship full of her insecurities. Think about it? Is she really worth it? You have to give your beloved the the freedom, the space and time to widen her horizons on her own. It is very possible to mend a relationship if the trust is present.

If you have not called lately, you can expect she will likely call you. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. You want to allow her the opportunity to recognize you as her ideal man.

Now it is simple, she will have to earn your time and affection. Be the one who is chased rather than the chaser. If she gets a hold on you while playing hard to get, don’t go “all in,” reserve a little. If you are really nice she may not know what to do so don’t be too open.

Did you hear me tell you to mistreat her? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If salvaging your relationship is what you want, here are the steps that may help restore your happiness.

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