why is he looking at online personal ads?

Published in August 6th, 2009

Anna S asked:

I'm dating one for a year and a half. we are very involved in each other 'lives daily if live minutes from each other. We never had issues of trust and we do not have sex as active and are very open and uninhibited in the bedroom, I am not looking at pornography and even holds the watch with. I do not ever interfered in a lie and really seem to be connected. So for this weekend at his house I found that it was examining the personal ads on craigslist? Was examining women seeking men and women mainly resemble seeking sex. Now what is going on. Turmoil that was just around, looking at some pics, hope they took some pics topless to include in their ad or is this the start of planning some sort Deuna the affair sex. For defining memory was almost shy about when we first started dating, in terms of him making the physical overtures. It appears from the character and together we spend so much of our leisure time. I do not want to crucify havoc around the Internet but really intrusive and chamfer really compare because snooping on your computer, but not b / c I thought that this find, the more b / c I was curious about the looks at pornography when they are not around. have to worry? this man who I sleep next to most of the nights and I say that she loves and passes the time with my family, prowling for sex on the Internet? Has a high libido and did not bother anything, as I do too. i can 't really the most sexually satisfied? This was just some dirty sex with a woman not known? so I asked him that if he is satisfied and of course requires, yes, yes. one other thing ….. beginning with the first time we had sex, he had some "issues" of performance;. We took several months to have sex really satisfying. sometimes still has. but it is very sensitive to this. (ie building maintenance) in the first place i thought it was just nerves heavy, but still happens and not really talk about gradicesse.

Tags: Craigslist, Personal Ads, Trust Issues

8 users responded in " why is he looking at online personal ads? "

Jess Q said, in August 8th, 2009 at 12:39 am

Eh sometimes I like to look on there just to see the kind of unbelievable stuff on there. I might even pretend I’m matchmaking the people on there (I’ll try to find two people who are similar and opposites and try to hook them up.) Sometimes it’s just hilarious. Maybe he was just bored. I’d hate to say look in his e-mail but he’d have to e-mail them to get in contact with the girls.

Kaitlin H said, in August 8th, 2009 at 6:19 pm

Just ignore it, he was probably just bored one day

jESSiCA BBy said, in August 11th, 2009 at 7:25 am

probably not he is probably just lookin at sum pics to turn him on when ur not aroun

geT sOme.... said, in August 13th, 2009 at 9:56 am

this dude is wack. . .if your cute and putting out then thats all he should need. . .i’d be satisfied. ..let me know if you break up. .

Angella B said, in August 14th, 2009 at 5:20 am

It sounds like he has relationship A.D.D. He might be bored. All though he knows that you are open minded about sex and incorporating things, he’s still not satisfied (typical male that isn’t ready to settle down). If he is always looking at porn and its extremely often than this might be a problem. I don’t know enough to call it an addiction, but when someones sexual desires cannot ever be met they start to get more extreme in what turns them on and it takes more and more to get them to climax. I would talk to him and feel the situation out. The only reason you would go online looking for women is if you are looking for women. But if this is an issue beyond him, I would find out so that you know how to either introduce him to help, or leave him. Good luck, but you two have to really communicate about it. Don’t be confrontational because he might get defensive and lie. I would just talk to him and find out whats up.

BarbieB said, in August 16th, 2009 at 7:18 am

Based on my experience these 40+ years – I don’t necessarily think he’s looking to cheat, but I do know there will be clues if something has happened – missing from time to time with no reasonable explanation, unexplained cell phone #’s, becomes more withdrawn in and out of the bedroom, situations just not adding up, etc. There will be signs if you pay close attention. Other than that, if all is good, then let it be and please don’t say anything until you have concrete proof – that will destroy the trust for sure. Some guys just like to look with no intention of ever fallowing through with it. Good luck but listen to your inner voice.

Babygirl said, in August 18th, 2009 at 1:38 am

Generally when a man is looking at that type of stuff, he’s interested in exploring other avenues. I’m not saying your man would cheat, but if your uninhibited in the bedroom, there’s no need for him to look for other women. There’s no need to window shop, if you don’t intend to buy.

dangerouspoet said, in August 20th, 2009 at 1:05 pm

Sorry to say it, but you’re not going to get the answer you’re really looking for unless you ask him. And I’m even more sorry that you’re gonna have to admit that you were snooping. There’s a reason for why you should be sure you trust your dude BEFORE you blab to the world that you guys have no trust issues. Because it’s obvious–if you trust him, you wouldn’t have to snoop.

Maybe there were small signs that things weren’t what they look like? A little distance on his part? Some strange comment about other women (something you either don’t do, don’t look like or can’t abide that some other women might perhap, something innocuous)? Maybe it’s the fact that he simply has a high libido, different sexual proclivities that he doesn’t think you’ll be “down” with? You won’t know the real reason unless you ask.

Apologize for snooping, tell him why you were looking in the first place (honesty is the best policy, however in this case, it might not gain you a lot of points). Ask him if he’s satisfied (truly) with your sex life as it stands, but first be sure you’re open to whatever he might be into before you go ’round saying, “Yes, darling, I’ll do that just so you won’t have to search for it on the internet!”

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