there is… id say those guys sound really shallow… but surely they cant ALL be looking just for that???

hey beautiful! Be cool, guys are like that. But if you find mature and more understanding ppl ,they certainly care about things like your talents, etc. Dont worry and I feel too skinny isnt fit at all. I mean u shouldnt be a pile of bones. RIght?

I can only speak for myself,although appearances are only a small part of relationships and “pleasantly plump” is very sexy,we are all hard wired to be attracted to fit and healthy persons,so if you are actually obese people will not be attracted…but don’t give up hope….:))

I don’t really have that much experience in that area, but here’s the best advice I can give you:

In my opinion, a guy that specifies “slim,” “fit,”and any other body type is usually not looking for his “significant other.” Usually it’s because he’s looking for some canoodling and “action” or what have you.

You are looking for love, right?

I think that it may seem that all the guys are looking for one thing, but that’s not the right way of looking at it. You can tell a lot about a person when you read their personal ad. If a guy puts up that he’s looking for some “slim” or “fit” woman, I doubt he’s that great a match for you anyways. In fact, it sounds rather superficial to me when a guy sepcifies what appearance a woman should have.

You are wonderful in your own way, as is every woman.
You deserve someone who can see that. Not all personal ads specify appearance, and so you just need to have a little faith in those which don’t specify it.

The only thing that I can really tell you is this:

Don’t give up. He’s out there, and you’ll find him eventually. Sure, there are those interesting and bizarre moments of misses, but that just brings you that much closer to your significant other that you deserve.

Don’t ever give up or let anyone tell you otherwise.
You deserve someone who appreciates and loves YOU.

And just to finish this whole tangent off, I think that too many people fail to realize that when you’re looking for that “slim” or “fit” person, it can all change in a few years. All appearances change with time. What never changes is who you are, and that’s what you should be looing for. A person. NOT a body type.

=] Good luck to you!