In talking about men and relationships it is hard not to generalize to some degree: no two guys are the same. But there are some general trends that can absolutely give you clues for understanding the secrets of being irresistible to men.

Women have searched for keys about males and relationships for centuries: How to make a guy fall in love with you? What makes a man stay in a relationship? Why don’t men talk more about their emotions?

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As complex as some of these questions are to answer, I’ll provide you a with a simple set of clues to explore the most popular one: How to be irresistible to the opposite gender.

  • Against common advice, the first thing I propose is that you show interest in him!

Gone are the days when seduction was a game in which you pretended disinterest to get the guy. Demonstrating interest (at least initially), shows that you are not into playing games: it establishes confidence and maturity. But as significant as this is, it’s also key that you do it subtly: you can pay him a compliment, or look at him in the eyes while he talks.

  • Once you’ve done this, practice my second tip: be a little mysterious. The key is not to show all your cards. Just like when you dress sexily, you don’t want to show too much—you want to leave something to the imagination.

The key to being attractive to men lies in an inside-out approach. Rather than following external rules to ‘act’ in a certain way, the most attractive women are the ones who are being themselves, even while applying a certain seduction tool. My favorite example of this inside-out approach is the Get a Guy Guide – check out this review.

The next piece of advice is something we do unconscioulsy, but it’s worth paying attention to:

  • Let your body speak for you at every opportunity. Body language includes using your smile, your hair, the movement of your hands…

And again, our suggestion of being subtle applies here as well, so make sure to not overdo it.

As many women as men go about dating as if they needed to fill an emotional hole in their lives. Most likely, this will inform their actions with fear and desperation. Taking this into consideration,

  • Avoid being too clingy, or too needy. Few things are less appealing than desperation.

This may be kind of obvious, but not everyone follows it. The more you insist, the more he will resist and find your behavior unattractive.

And here’s the tip that encompasses all the others:

  • Act confidently. In order to learn how to be attractive to men, you have to be attractive to yourself first.

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Find a balance and be content within yourself. And then project that contentment. You should begin a relationship with a guy as if you’re already complete. You can want a man to enrich your life, but start by cultivating the feeling that your life is already rich to start with. This attitude of self-reliance will position you best to comprehend men and relationships, and to learn to become more attractive to them.

 

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