Catch her attention. In order to make it, you have to write your profile beyond ordinary. There is no recipe for everyone on profiles, it is you who is presented there, so the creativity is all yours. Everyone can write: “male, Sagittarius, seeking an attractive…”, but only you can invent something special, which represents you and is not a boring stereotype.

Everything is in the detail Perhaps, this is true, but sometimes it is better if some details are set aside. Your profile must be precise and reasonably short: if she will find it interesting, you will update her on all your characteristic details later. So, your personal description will be better if it is concrete and brief. Again, it is better to emphasize not the size of your shoes and color of your eyes, but the key features of your character, habits and desires. Perhaps, she will find interesting to know what kind of cigarettes you use, when you prefer to smoke and how much coffee you consume while at work, but, better to limit your description to the key features of your personality (clearly, the listed ones are not those features).

Only You! When it comes to description of your match, writing in a third person is a bad idea. I will give you an example. “I am looking for someone special, who appreciates order in her life, but when some disorder happens, she takes it easy with a good sense of humor. If she is caught under warm summer rain, she just laughs and enjoys the opportunity to get a little wet.” Or, lets say instead “You are special and I am looking for you! You appreciate order in your life, but when you are caught in a warm summer rain you just laugh and enjoy an opportunity to get little wet. If I have got this right about you, please, let me know, I want to hear from you!” You are writing about a person you have never met, and still she will feel that this is about her. In a first example, even if this is about her and she will read it, she still may not feel that way, because it is written in a third person, about some other girl. As a result you may never hear from her. Considering that you have worked hard on your profile and manage to express an essence of your perfect match, you dont want this to happen.

Make her smile. You are not writing this profile for job promotion, so any joke, humor, trick will do you only good. If you have a good sense of humor, make sure that she would know about it from the start.

Give her some mystery. With every word you wrote just remember: you are writing to a woman. If she will not find any mystery in you, it is bad, because she will look for someone else who will give her that chance. Men without mystery are boring, so you dont want to be among them, you are working on outstanding profile, you want to be above your competition! Make your story half-told, leave blanks, let her to fill gaps with her own imagination, and then she will wink or write to you. The purpose of your profile is to attract attention, you will get it!

Warning about your exclusion list. Offering your friendship to anybody is almost as much mindless, as being too picky with your requirements. Sure, there are not that many men who are looking specifically for ugly, stupid or mean women, however, you have to set your turn-offs wisely. Keep in mind that 80% of women (including gorgeous ones) some way, or another are displeased with themselves. Feeling stupid or ugly does not mean to be the one, but the best part of mankind sometimes mistakes their feelings for reality. You better leave such judgment to yourself. Besides, if someone will stipulate that he is looking for a supermodel with Ph.D. in physics, ladies may view this as an indication of some inferiority complex, and skip to the next profile.

Watch your language. I am not talking about the choice of your words, I am talking about observing the grammar. You can write that you are very successful in your business, that you are dreaming to fill your mansion in Palm Beach Gardens with kids and pets, but you cannot do this alone, etc. Make just two grammar mistakes and your chances to find someone will dwindle substantially. She will not buy it, no matter how “sensear is your writting”.

No to physical boast. By all means avoid any male self-advertisement (unless your aim is a 1-2 night relationship). There is no need to tell the world how is your stamina in the bedroom: you dont need any silly statements in your profile.

Truth, truth and nothing but the truth. Lie will be revealed sooner or later. Why should you tarnish possibly great relationship with a lie? Be honest with your profile and with the choice of your photos.

Brevity is a virtue. Yes, I know, it is time to wrap up these tips. Just a final word: try not to achieve brevity with abbreviations and omissions, those can be misunderstood. Your profile is not a classified ad, so you will be given enough space for presenting yourself there. Otherwise, woman may think that you will pay her the same untidy attention, as you did with your personal profile. Make it neat, and you will be noticed. Good luck.

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