1. Do not hesitate to go up and talk to her by waiting for that perfect moment when she is alone. Even if she is interested in you if you haven’t won her friends over they will pull her away from you.

2. Don’t stare at her for more than three seconds before approaching. Hesitate, and you’ll either creep her out or psyche yourself out.

3. Do not be leery of approaching her only because there are men in her group. Generally, you’ll find out that she’s merely with family, friends, or co-workers and not a boyfriend or date.

4. Never start conversing with a woman with an apology. Sayings such as “Excuse me ” “Pardon me ” and “I’m sorry, but” make you seem like you are begging for her attention.

5. Don’t hit on her or give her a generalized flattering remark. Alternatively, start with an entertaining anecdote or question, such as asking the group to propose names for a three-legged dog or a store that sells 80’s memorabilia. It may sound cheesy, but everyone loves to give you their thoughts on a subject.

6. Never, ever purchase a cocktail for her. A real man doesn’t need to purchase a woman’s attention.

7. Don’t touch or grab her right away. If she touches you, say, with a smile, “Hey now, hands off the merchandise.”

8. Don’t lean in or hover over her. Stand up straight and, if the music’s too loud or she’s seated, simply speak up.

9. Don’t ask her what her name is, what she does for a living, or where she’s from. She’s bored of talking about the same things with every new guy she meets.

10. Don’t focus all your attention on her when she’s with other people. If you win her friends over, you’ll win her.

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