It’s a cliche but it’s true – first impressions ARE the lasting ones. If you are somewhat negative as you approach a girl, chances are it is going to be short lived. One of the easily overlooked dating tips for guys is how you look, especially when you meet the girl for the first time. It’s important to make a girl feel comfortable and by the way you dress affects whether she is or isn’t because if your appearence tends to be a bit ‘extreme’, you will make her clearly uncomfortable. When going out with the idea of approaching a girl dress neat, dress clean, and dress in accordance with the local dress code. There are some places where spiked purple hair is appropriate and some places where a three piece suit is appropriate. Seldom are they the same place so do not confuse the two.

One liners work in movies and occasionally in other places. But for the most part a polished one liner is no way to approach a girl, especially if she doesn’t know you from ‘Adam’. A far better way to make your approach is through a mutual acquaintance.

When you see the girl of your dreams, look to see who she is with. It may be that you know someone at the table, and if so strike up a conversation with them first, working on achieving an introduction. Don’t worry if the mutual friend is simply a ‘friend of a friend’, or someone you’ve only briefly met, you can still use them to get you an intro at the table. A creditable introduction will get you a lot farther than the best one liner.

If the one liner is the biggest cause of a premature collapse in a relationship attempt, the second biggest is not knowing what to say next. Girls are looking for someone with some depth to them. You could be the best dressed guy around but if that’s where your attraction stops, and you offer a girl little else to be attracted to, then you are best staying at home. One of the key dating tips for guys is to have some things in mind to talk about and be ready to listen as well. You are not there to lecture but to share thoughts and ideas. After all, you want to get to know her too.

If you happen to strike out, don’t worry – politely acknowledge it and simply move on. You do not need to burn bridges. Remember she just might be the one you need to provide the next introduction as you practice how to approach a girl.

Extract taken from full review and article at Double Your Dating Review 

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Well, that is not really the case (aside of our recommendation on the right) because finding the best ways to impress a girl really depends on the girl herself. However, there are some things that you can do that nearly every girl likes, that will help you get the girl and keep her if you want too.

One of the key things you need to take on board is to be confident, not cocky. For whatever reason men seem to confuse the two and will often turn a girl off by being obnoxious rather than simply confident. So, what is the difference between the two? Well, a guy who is obnoxious will address a girl in a term like baby, or babe. Without even asking, an obnoxious guy will join a girl at a table and start talking, this is not confidence, this is simply being rude. Instead, if you want to convey confidence, then you should approach a girl while looking her directly in the eyes. Introduce yourself and ask if you can join her, dance, etc. whatever the situation dictates. Taking her by the lebow with your hand is OK, but don’t be too keen to hold her hand or put your arm around her. Guide, not pull. That is the guy who gets the girl!

If you want to be the guy who knows how to approach a girl in a way that gets results then after you have approached her and she is open to chatting to you, talk to her about her, when she asks about you share a little but don’t talk too much about yourself. Girls like guys who listen.

Try to work in a compliment about her eyes and lips. Get her to think about kissing, but don’t be crude. Look to compliment her with comments that relate specifically to her, like admire her smile or the way she laughs, that way your avoiding the obvious and cliche comments like “I think you’re hot”, and by being specific she knows you are focused on her.

OK, perhaps you aren’t they guy that always gets the girl (yet!), nevertheless is you start by treating a women like she is a person with feelings and not simply a prize to win over, you’ll be amazed how this simple concept will raise the amount of attention you get from women. Women want to know that you want her, but she doesn’t want you to crudely come out and say it. Find the right words and use them and before you know it, you will get the girl.

Extract taken from full review and article at double your dating review 

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It’s a good thing you found this article.

Are you sick of being the only one out of your friends who is still single?

Why is it that all your friends are in couples and you are not?

Could your lack of dating success be because you don’t know how to flirt with a guy?

Here are the things you need to keep in mind to flirt right

1. Pay attention to how you are in public. No, this does not require you to have the looks of a super hot super model, but at least spend some time making yourself look good. What are you wearing? Are you wearing the right perfume? Eye liner? are you wearing it? Keep in mind, guys pay attention to looks more than girls

2. You need to make him like you so you have to get him talking a lot, that’s why it’s important to direct the conversation to be about him. Men, like all people enjoy talking about themselves, so that’s why you need to talk about him. It’s really important to be a girl who knows how to listen. There is no better topic to talk about than oneself so that’s why you have to make sure he talks about himself, otherwise he might lose interest.

What you need to always keep in mind is to stay positive and interact with him. Please don’t give him negative body language and make him feel bad. Also, guys really like girls who gently touch them on the arm or the leg if she likes him, so please don’t be shy and let him know!.

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