You might be very handsome and smart, but if you do not understand how to ask a girl out, she will most likely refuse your proposal for your absence of finesse. Dating is fun , but the planning should be done with care and consideration for your partner and her likes and dislikes. Many girls prefer to get asked out upfront while some may not mind being made contact with through their email address. You can send her a mail first just to see her reply. Rather than specifying a particular date, you can give her the choice of a few days and ask her to select according at her convenience.

This makes the girl feel important and you have better chances of her accepting your date soon. Some guys just put on pretence of being too busy and fix up a date for sometime a month later. This just puts off a girl, as it is obviously a sort of game where he’s trying to tell her how busy or booked he is for the next one month. Don’t be vague by mentioning ‘let’s get together sometime ‘ “this is a very imprecise way of asking a girl out and shows you are not truly serious.

Once you have asked her and fixed up a date, you can keep in touch until the day before and especially on the morning of the date. This shows that you’re a reliable person and the girl won’t have to keep wondering whether the date is actually going to happen. You may also ask her one or two questions about what sort of place she often frequents, or the sort of food she loves and so on , solely to show her that you care to make her happy.

You should give her some hint about the place that you will be going on your date, so that she can plan the appropriate dress to wear. In fact , it is even okay if you ask her to choose a place of her choice but don’t stress on it. By following all of the above steps, you may have a cool date and that will be a good start for a truly outstanding relationship with your girl.

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Lets get on with today’s lesson……..

 
One of the major issues men have when it comes to having more success with women is the art of getting her to say “yes” whe you ask her out on a date. I understand that going from the bar to the bedroom (also known as a same night lay) may be what you really want, but for most men knowing how to get a date is what’s going to bring on most of their success with girls.

One of the first major parts to your dating skillset is knowing how to get a girl to say yes to your offer consistently. Setting up a date the proper way will mean few cancelations and much less predate flaking. What follows is the exact technique you want to use to ask any woman out on a date with you.
 

1.   Create a plan- Come up with a great or intersting date in
     advance that you use over and over again. Something that
gets women really intrigued or excited. it could even be
     a cool dive bar on a Tuesday night or whatever. Just be
     unique and make it something that people want to do.

2.   Plant the “Seed”- Accidentally mention it, or something about it
to her towards the beginning of your conversation with out asking the girl
to come along with you on a “date”.

3.   Oversell it but don’t ask her yet- When you let her in on your
special plan, make sure it seems incredibly cool & extremely
interesting or anything you feel the girl will react well to,
but do not invite the girl! This is crucial. She’ll be thinking “Why
     isn’t this guy inviting me? Every other pussy can’t wait
     to ask me on a date. Does he even like me?”

4.   Ask her through a qualifier- A few minutes or even an hour
later, use a qualifying question that is date related,
then ask her. As an example, if you previously stated you had
     these cool cocktail/dinner parties, qualify her by saying
     “I usually only let girls who can cook come to my party, are
     you a good cook?” This is a qualifying question. Then ask
the girl by stating “Ok, ok…..you can come if you want, you really earned it. I
     like a girl who can cook.(Or at least isn’t afraid of cooking)

5.   Get her number for a confirmation call- Right after that ask her for her
     number. One way to do this is to pass her your cell and tell her “here you go, type
     your # into my phone and I’ll call you with the details.” I like
     to make up a funny nickname for each girl on the spot and put it
     into my phone.

After you have finished with the 5 steps, you should be money and it will
also prevent a lot of date flaking and canceling. This is a great tactic for
getting the date because you can’t just blurt it out & say you wanna take her on a date
which really shows the power that she has over you….Instead you turn the tables
and get her to qualify herself to you BEFORE asking her on the date.
The girl is chasing you now and this happens to be exactly where you want her.

Now, when you’re on your date is a whole other story. You really must learn how
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