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Lets get on with today’s lesson……..

 
One of the major issues men have when it comes to having more success with women is the art of getting her to say “yes” whe you ask her out on a date. I understand that going from the bar to the bedroom (also known as a same night lay) may be what you really want, but for most men knowing how to get a date is what’s going to bring on most of their success with girls.

One of the first major parts to your dating skillset is knowing how to get a girl to say yes to your offer consistently. Setting up a date the proper way will mean few cancelations and much less predate flaking. What follows is the exact technique you want to use to ask any woman out on a date with you.
 

1.   Create a plan- Come up with a great or intersting date in
     advance that you use over and over again. Something that
gets women really intrigued or excited. it could even be
     a cool dive bar on a Tuesday night or whatever. Just be
     unique and make it something that people want to do.

 

2.   Plant the “Seed”- Accidentally mention it, or something about it
to her towards the beginning of your conversation with out asking the girl
to come along with you on a “date”.

 

3.   Oversell it but don’t ask her yet- When you let her in on your
special plan, make sure it seems incredibly cool & extremely
interesting or anything you feel the girl will react well to,
but do not invite the girl! This is crucial. She’ll be thinking “Why
     isn’t this guy inviting me? Every other pussy can’t wait
     to ask me on a date. Does he even like me?”

 

4.   Ask her through a qualifier- A few minutes or even an hour
later, use a qualifying question that is date related,
then ask her. As an example, if you previously stated you had
     these cool cocktail/dinner parties, qualify her by saying
     “I usually only let girls who can cook come to my party, are
     you a good cook?” This is a qualifying question. Then ask
the girl by stating “Ok, ok…..you can come if you want, you really earned it. I
     like a girl who can cook.(Or at least isn’t afraid of cooking)

 

5.   Get her number for a confirmation call- Right after that ask her for her
     number. One way to do this is to pass her your cell and tell her “here you go, type
     your # into my phone and I’ll call you with the details.” I like
     to make up a funny nickname for each girl on the spot and put it
     into my phone.

  

After you have finished with the 5 steps, you should be money and it will
also prevent a lot of date flaking and canceling. This is a great tactic for
getting the date because you can’t just blurt it out & say you wanna take her on a date
which really shows the power that she has over you….Instead you turn the tables
and get her to qualify herself to you BEFORE asking her on the date.
The girl is chasing you now and this happens to be exactly where you want her.

Now, when you’re on your date is a whole other story. You really must learn how
to make sure she stays attracted to you. The most incredible program I know of that solves this problem is called
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