When you consider dating a woman, more than likely you consider dinner and a movie, right?

You go out and doing things with the woman while you get to know her.

Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?

See, most guys use the concept of “going out” with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.

Let’s go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when “dating” a girl…

Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to “Impress” women.

Often men might feel like they have something to prove while on a date, to get the woman to like them. They seem to think that taking a woman to some fancy and memorable place and bragging about their accomplishments makes them seem important.

Mistake #2: You can buy the love of a woman.

This is not true and is a very bad idea, since many women are not concerned about the amount of money you spend on a date. There is no amount of money or any expensive item you can buy that will get a woman interested in you if there is no mutual attraction.

Mistake #3: Activities are a pointless waste of time!

Since spending time together does not equal a romantic interest, going out with someone does not mean as much as you would think it does, therefore, doing the dinner and a movie date, does not mean the girl will be attracted to you.

Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!

A date with no spark of chemistry is boring. Although many men become nervous while on dates, they often interrupt themselves by becoming boring. They often talk about their routines while displaying little to none of their distinct personality. This is going through the motions with hopes of not messing things up.

Mistake #5: Guys follow a pattern of failure.

Some men have a preconceived ideal of dating, how they think things should happen, and then they rigidly follow that perception. They may go out on a dinner date, while they ask her all the same questions as their other dates. This eliminates all the spontaneous fun of interacting with the woman.

What does dating a woman mean?

It is simply really, dating builds attractions by strengthening emotional connections and building comfort.

It does not matter how much you spend or where you may go, what does matter is how you build your connection with a woman, while encouraging her feelings for you.

This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.

You should completely focus on how you can increase your emotional connection with the woman you date.

You should be open to talking about your shared passions and interests, while trying to figure out what her hopes and dreams may be.

Stay away from boring questions like “where do you work?” Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: “If you could do anything you wanted, and weren’t bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?”

Above all, you should just have fun and enjoy yourself!

Tell a few jokes, even if they are not the best, simply have fun, while steering the conversation towards her topics of interest, you should be curious of whom she really is.

But most importantly, don’t shy away from sex!

Although many men shy away from approaching the subject of relationships while on a date, you should build the intensity of attraction by building toward that.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON’T do it, you won’t be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.

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