Comments on: Over 35: I need help writing personal ad for dating website?

By: historybuff33

historybuff33 — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:31:36 +0000

Well, it’s hard, because you don’t really tell us anything about YOU… only about what you don’t want in a man. Hmmm. Maybe that’s the problem. You need to focus on finding someone that you would be right for, not just someone who will be right for you: “Ask not what your man can do for you, ask what you can do for your man.” Try something like this…

“Hi, I’m a 35+ SF seeking SM 30-45 for possible long-term relationship. I’m no supermodel, but I’ve been told I’ve got (a) killer [list best physical feature(s)] and I clean up well. I’m sober and drug, felony, and Prozac free. (If you’re not, don’t apply.) I’m looking for someone who will enjoy sharing companionship, recreation, and chores. Cook with me, help do the dishes, then sweep me off my feet! I enjoy ice sculpting (you know what they say about cold hands!). I also like modern Russian literature and horseback riding. If you do too, maybe we can “Chekhov” a date and ride off in the sunset together!”

By: orlando d

orlando d — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 00:07:16 +0000

steff what you said was great ,just add some of your talents and remind men that your great to be around and have an opinion ,and would like to meet men that treat a women as an equal not as a slave , tell men you want a relationship based on good morals and standards.by the way just change the wording then your not the type of addict iam llooking for,iam looking for a man that will be adicted to me for the rest of our lives,and if you cant handle that then step aside ,because iam moving on , and dont need no monkeys on my back. to the point , be blunt ,i have wants needs and desires if your a man and cant handle my special needs then move over and let a real man take over

By: lonewolf

lonewolf — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:03:59 +0000

Hello my name is Stephanie I am an attactive, healthy, straight arrow who doesn”t drink or smoke in search of a good man who is like minded. Must be willing to help with household chores in our eventualy married household ! P. S. must be drug free !

By: E-Male

E-Male — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 08:40:06 +0000

honey, like it says, it’s a dating site, that’s why you date , to find out who is right for you. it isn’t a marriage site for a reason. I mean what do you think that 10 bucks a month is suppose to do for you? it helps you meet people. it’s your job to sort them out, some women like the alcoholic druggy felony types. most people on dating sites have been there done that before (marriage) and don’t go there looking for that again. hey high school is over, no one to cart a bus load of prospects in for you to pick and choose from. you gotta get out and look on your own now. scary isn’t it, attracting someone on your own merits. you can’t go to the clubs any more, now you gotta hang out in the bars. that old bald beer belly felon is starting to look pretty good after a few beers and a few nights of re-runs on the tv at home alone.

By: westfield47130

westfield47130 — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 08:59:07 +0000

Then you have to write it in such a way that it attracts the right kind of guy but doesn’t make him think you are a domineering woman. I’d be happy to help anytime.

By: marisa

*marisa* — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:51:41 +0000

be like “hello im (and then describe yourself there). Unfortunately, if you do drugs, drink like a fish, smoke, have a felony, or need Prozac, then it’s not going to work. But for the rest of you….I’m here!”
or sumthin like that pshaw i dont know it’s funny just the way u wrote it

By: sarahjaniepoo

sarahjaniepoo — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:07:13 +0000

The fun thing about online dating is that you CAN say stuff like that. Believe me, there are lots of guys out there who don’t do drugs, or drink like crazy for smoke or have a felony or need Prozac who will read that and be impressed with a girl who’s not afraid to say what she wants. Don’t settle for anything less. The only guys who are going to think you’re being too picky are the ones that fall into those bad categories and you don’t want them anyways.

By: someoneelsesproblem

someoneelsesproblem — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 16:28:07 +0000

where are you at? ill go out with you.