Comments on: My boyfriend placed a personal ad on a dating site what does this mean?

By: happychappy

happychappy — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 14:10:18 +0000

i agree with looneytooner, he is only with you until someone better comes along. get out now and be the better person, he wouldnt be on this site if you were the one, u r the one right now and he is looking for someone better and will keep doing it until he thinks he finds it! hard thing to swallow but the temptation is there for him and this will lead to him cheating on you and breaking your heart!!!

By: Jo

Jo — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 01:37:51 +0000

Gosh! I’d be worried if I were you. I think you should confront him about it and see his response.

By: Looneytooner

Looneytooner — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 07:35:19 +0000

It sounds like this guy is getting ready to run on you. Except he is too chicken or insecure to break up first. He will wait until he gets a new girlfriend via this site and then find an excuse not to see you so much. When that happens he will expect you to break it off. I would not even bother with him. Just tell him that it just isn’t working out.

By: curiusvudu102

curiusvudu102 — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 22:05:00 +0000

Um i have a question???? How did you find his personal ad? just curious bc personal ads are usually in the “personal ad” section of the newspaper or ya know, a dating site on the internet…and im just wondering how you found it…get my point??? you mustve been goin thru personal ads to find his…sounds like you two were made for each other…

By: Husker41

Husker41 — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 09:27:48 +0000

It probably means you’re toast. Why don’t you surprise him and answer the ad?

BTW, why are YOU looking at guys ads on a dating site?

By: mighty spy

mighty spy — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 15:00:09 +0000

The question is: When did your boyfriend put the ad on the dating site?

If it’s an old ad, then you shouldn’t fret over it. However, if the ad is recent, I suggest you find out from your boyfriend himself. Let him do his explanation first.

By: Margaret D

Margaret D — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 09:19:25 +0000

I think you clearly have the answer to that question. Perhaps you are in denial? The fact that he has placed a personal ad on a dating site is room for concern. I would try to have a heart to heart with him. You never know, it might just be an experiment. Try and give him the benefit of the doubt until you have collected enought proof to what you might suspect.

Good Luck!

By: MSLETY

MSLETY — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 08:55:52 +0000

Have you ever heard the song”Escape(The Pina Colada Song)?Well,you need to listen to it.Good luck.

By: Maximan

Maximan — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 16:57:41 +0000

he likes Pina Coladas & walks in the rain?

By: c.coen

c.coen — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 15:24:44 +0000

It means he does not have the balls to tell you that he no longer wants to be with you. what he is prob thinking is that he will still date you till some one Else comes along. I should know because my no good ex did the same thing. He did the E-Harmony thing and he got matched with a friend of mine. she and i where both blown away. to say the least i kicked his sorry arse to the curb. sure you can ask him about it, but do you really think he can give a good enough answer to make you understand? I know it has to hurt, but He does not deserve you. you can do better. I hope all works out for you.