Comments on: Ladies: Am I not attractive enough for online dating? Be honest. Pic inside?

By: Model Elaine D

Model Elaine D — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 10:34:29 +0000

Your picture link is not working. In any case, there is a link to some online picture taking tips on my page, so check it out.

By: YOG

YOG — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 06:14:04 +0000

u look great

keep it up

thanks

By: Arther

Arther — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 03:42:43 +0000

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. :s

By: liladancing

liladancing — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 08:24:46 +0000

Online dating can be lame an arbitrary. I think maybe it isn’t a thing about you the way you actually look.. the first pic of you didn’t show me anything for some reason so I only saw your body.

I didn’t think working out is necessarily going to make more girls like you. For instance I actually like kinda pale scrawny guys. I tend to date guys more on their personality than just looks. To me it seems like you might have self esteem issues. If you think no one is going to like you and you don’t know if you’re good looking enough you just project that and you become it more and more. I have had trouble with men before probably for the same reasons. It is all in the way you carry yourself. If you hunch your shoulders or look down when people talk to you people are going to think that you are less dominant than they are or that you are unsure of yourself.
Go out there and make sure that you have a strong will. you probably like yourself- or at least you should like yourself so you should think that women will like you. I have a hard time finding the sort of person who is willing to take on all that I am and all that I project cause I just have so much energy. But that doesn’t mean that there isn’t someone out there for me that won’t be able to find them.
I tend to not date online. The only times I have tried it or looked didn’t work out and were generally weird. I think there is a stigma for online dating and that is probably in part due to the fact that if you have a hard time meeting people you probably aren’t proactive enough or willing enough to get out there and do something to be noticed by anyone (and by you I mean some online daters.)

By: Dino

Dino — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 23:25:42 +0000

Dude,dating sites are a rip off! go to your local mall,bar,movies,concerts.I’ve picked up tons of women in those places! I’m 49,6ft,180 ripped!start running,sit ups,biking,swimming,lifting weights.good diet.remember if you don’t feel sexy,your not in others eyes.
carry yourself with sex appeal,be masculine.

By: ♥Tina♥

♥Tina♥ — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 22:45:26 +0000

I think you are a pervert. Why not go out and experience the real thing.

By: caffine jag

caffine jag — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 07:55:24 +0000

Dude, for a better answer you need to also post a typical ad or initial contact letter to see if that is where the problem is. Remember, most women get bombarded with emails, I once read that a man would have to send 100 emails to get one response. It might not be your looks at all but your attitude may come off wrong, or you are not a match to the women you contact etc…

If you contact a women even though you do not meet a specific requirement of hers in her ad she WILL NOT answer!

By: marimar67m

marimar67m — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 17:59:56 +0000

WELL I CHECKED OUT THE PIC BUT ALL I COULD SEE IS FROM THE NECK DOWN WHAT HAPPEN TO UR FACE, HOW CAN WE JUDGE U IF WE CAN’T SEE IT.. WELL FROM WHAT I SAW I THINK U SHOULD ADD SOME MUSCLE.. BUT U KNOW WHAT IF SOMEONE LIKES OR LOVES U THEY SHOULD TAKE U JUST THE WAY U ARE.. AND DON’T RUSH INTO ANYTHING CUZ LADIES NOW A DAYS ARE JUST LOOKING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME WITHOUT THE COMMITMENT.. BUT WHEN U LEAST EXPECT IT UR DREAM GIRL WILL COME..

By: kokopelli

kokopelli — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:18:44 +0000

I like the way the head is cut off. The rest of it I didn’t care for.

By: bittywrap

bittywrap — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 11:22:34 +0000

Maybe you should show your face and put some close on