Ladies: Am I not attractive enough for online dating? Be honest. Pic inside?

Published in November 19th, 2009

Schiv asked:

A little about me: I 'm 24 years, educated and good work of the university, 6 foot, 185lbs and in the shape of anything evil. But I have a moment with the places online dating and dating in general. I 'VE been the single my whole life … Most of the girls won places on the' dating; t answered me. I 'the VE has recently tried personal ads craigslist sending. I 'M generally able to convince many women to respond to these, but every single girl has stopped communicating with me when I 'the VE has sent my picture. Why have had so much difficulty? Are not attractive enough for this sort of thing? Here is a pic from when I got back from the gym. I didn 't use this picture of course but it will give you a sense of what it looks like: http://img28.picoodle.com/img/img28/5/11/12/nmake123/f_bulkedupbram_8296651.jpg I started solving the hope that would have helped. I 'the VE has definitely added muscle, but haven' t added all the dates, ( http://img27.picoodle.com/img/img27/5/11/11/nmake123/f_111120074mom_b55fd9f.jpg

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melinda k said, in November 21st, 2009 at 9:22 am

honestly you look crazy in the eyes untrustworthy

carole said, in November 23rd, 2009 at 2:32 am

don’t hunch your shoulders when you pose.

Freeway Ricky Ross said, in November 26th, 2009 at 8:06 pm

I just puked a lil in my mouth

hola said, in November 28th, 2009 at 8:31 pm

we can’t see ur face

gwl1313 said, in December 4th, 2009 at 5:25 am

That’s too bad. The face pic, by the way, can’t be accessed. Good luck in the future!

⊱✿Kayla✿⊰ said, in December 6th, 2009 at 5:06 am

the links didnt work.
sorry
but you sound dateable

good luck! =)

Dan said, in December 7th, 2009 at 5:20 pm

Maybe you’re too much into yourself than into woman. Girls don’t like self centered guys.

kornkrazed said, in December 8th, 2009 at 6:53 am

Ok first picture link is not working, second where is your face? Nice bod though.

hotshorty said, in December 11th, 2009 at 4:13 am

ok i couldn’t see ur face but ur body is ok ( not realy) but any ways !

babyhonbri said, in December 13th, 2009 at 11:03 am

cant see da face pic if u have 1 but there’s nuthin wrong wit ur body…..is there sumthin wrong wit u? and try da real world dating yes its crucial and hard but its has its goods and bads you just have to find them

act_won said, in December 15th, 2009 at 5:56 am

whats your face look like? and dude get out and mingle.

cherry apple said, in December 16th, 2009 at 10:06 pm

well you look pretty good to me but wears your face..

Janet B said, in December 18th, 2009 at 5:08 am

It looks like you had a freak accident–someone cut off your head. The first one didn’t work.

~ Cutie ~ said, in December 18th, 2009 at 9:35 pm

OK in the first picture it was noting but a piick square that says something on it and the 2 one was great! Hope I helped!

shebae said, in December 20th, 2009 at 6:05 pm

WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU DO ONLINE DATING? GO OUT AND MEET SOMEONE . YOU CAN MEET SOMEONE IN A GROCERY STORE. WHAT HAPPEN TO NORMAL MEETING AND DATIG SOMEONE.

chandra said, in December 22nd, 2009 at 9:34 pm

Are you an idiot or something…honestly!

You are focusing too much on the outer appearance – of your body

You haven’t even shown your face!!!

You can tell ALOT from a face!

If I saw ‘your’ ‘pic’…on a dating site I would steer well clear!

1 too vain

2 not even open enough to show his face

3 its not the body which matters!!!!!!!!

Where is the REAL you????????

You can’t have a REAL relationship if you are not REAL!!!!

becca said, in December 24th, 2009 at 8:05 am

Well my computer only let me see one of the pics but you have a nice body I’ll give you that much but I dont no what your face looks like….. But judging how you wrote this it seems you have an ok attitude. Start questioning yourself and seeing why girls are not interest. Examples are personality, confidence, among other things as well. I hope this can help..

bittywrap said, in December 26th, 2009 at 4:22 am

Maybe you should show your face and put some close on

kokopelli said, in December 27th, 2009 at 10:18 pm

I like the way the head is cut off. The rest of it I didn’t care for.

marimar67m said, in December 28th, 2009 at 10:59 am

WELL I CHECKED OUT THE PIC BUT ALL I COULD SEE IS FROM THE NECK DOWN WHAT HAPPEN TO UR FACE, HOW CAN WE JUDGE U IF WE CAN’T SEE IT.. WELL FROM WHAT I SAW I THINK U SHOULD ADD SOME MUSCLE.. BUT U KNOW WHAT IF SOMEONE LIKES OR LOVES U THEY SHOULD TAKE U JUST THE WAY U ARE.. AND DON’T RUSH INTO ANYTHING CUZ LADIES NOW A DAYS ARE JUST LOOKING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME WITHOUT THE COMMITMENT.. BUT WHEN U LEAST EXPECT IT UR DREAM GIRL WILL COME..

caffine jag said, in December 30th, 2009 at 12:55 am

Dude, for a better answer you need to also post a typical ad or initial contact letter to see if that is where the problem is. Remember, most women get bombarded with emails, I once read that a man would have to send 100 emails to get one response. It might not be your looks at all but your attitude may come off wrong, or you are not a match to the women you contact etc…

If you contact a women even though you do not meet a specific requirement of hers in her ad she WILL NOT answer!

♥Tina♥ said, in January 1st, 2010 at 3:45 pm

I think you are a pervert. Why not go out and experience the real thing.

Dino said, in January 2nd, 2010 at 4:25 pm

Dude,dating sites are a rip off! go to your local mall,bar,movies,concerts.I’ve picked up tons of women in those places! I’m 49,6ft,180 ripped!start running,sit ups,biking,swimming,lifting weights.good diet.remember if you don’t feel sexy,your not in others eyes.
carry yourself with sex appeal,be masculine.

liladancing said, in January 4th, 2010 at 1:24 am

Online dating can be lame an arbitrary. I think maybe it isn’t a thing about you the way you actually look.. the first pic of you didn’t show me anything for some reason so I only saw your body.

I didn’t think working out is necessarily going to make more girls like you. For instance I actually like kinda pale scrawny guys. I tend to date guys more on their personality than just looks. To me it seems like you might have self esteem issues. If you think no one is going to like you and you don’t know if you’re good looking enough you just project that and you become it more and more. I have had trouble with men before probably for the same reasons. It is all in the way you carry yourself. If you hunch your shoulders or look down when people talk to you people are going to think that you are less dominant than they are or that you are unsure of yourself.
Go out there and make sure that you have a strong will. you probably like yourself- or at least you should like yourself so you should think that women will like you. I have a hard time finding the sort of person who is willing to take on all that I am and all that I project cause I just have so much energy. But that doesn’t mean that there isn’t someone out there for me that won’t be able to find them.
I tend to not date online. The only times I have tried it or looked didn’t work out and were generally weird. I think there is a stigma for online dating and that is probably in part due to the fact that if you have a hard time meeting people you probably aren’t proactive enough or willing enough to get out there and do something to be noticed by anyone (and by you I mean some online daters.)

Arther said, in January 4th, 2010 at 8:42 pm

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. :s

YOG said, in January 5th, 2010 at 11:14 pm

u look great

keep it up

thanks

Model Elaine D said, in January 9th, 2010 at 3:34 am

Your picture link is not working. In any case, there is a link to some online picture taking tips on my page, so check it out.

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