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Ladies: Am i not attractive enough for online dating? Be honest. Pic included?

Published in August 4th, 2009

Posted by admin in Other - Beauty & Style

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Schiv asked:

A little about me: I 'm 24 years, educated and good work of the university, 6 foot, 185lbs and in the shape of anything evil. But I have a moment with the places online dating and dating in general. I 'VE been the single my whole life … Most of the girls won places on the' dating; t answered me. During the 5months I used eharmony.com, I was convinced only 2 girls to actually go out on a date with the real me. Both girls have expressed disinterest in me after our date. I 'the VE has recently tried personal ads craigslist sending. I 'M generally able to convince many women to respond to these, but every single girl has stopped communicating with me when I 'the VE has sent my picture. Why have had so much difficulty? Are not attractive enough for this sort of thing? Here is a pic from when I got back from the gym. I didn 't use this picture of course but it will give you a sense of what it looks like: http://img28.picoodle.com/img/img28/5/11/12/nmake123/f_bulkedupbram_8296651.jpg

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18 users responded in " Ladies: Am i not attractive enough for online dating? Be honest. Pic included? "

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love soilder said, in August 4th, 2009 at 4:06 pm

smile in the picture!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u look like a serial killer!

mommat said, in August 7th, 2009 at 6:22 pm

Your ok looking no pon intended…i would say there is someone out there for you..but maybe it needs to find you and you should just let it take it’s time

mimi said, in August 10th, 2009 at 6:05 pm

you’re hot…maybe the problem lies within your personality>>????

lemonole said, in August 14th, 2009 at 4:11 am

It looks like a mug shot. take a picture playing a sport or at an event, and try smiling, it makes you seem a lot more approachable

Esa Loka said, in August 14th, 2009 at 3:59 pm

having confidence in your self is always sexy..take new pictures like you are sure and confident in the pose..your not ugly you just need a confidence boost

Joti said, in August 17th, 2009 at 2:28 am

You’re perfect the way you are. God just wants you to wait for your perfect girl. Don’t put yourself down. Also a girl should go for your personality not for what you look like because personality will stay forever not appearance. And I’m 100% sure that you’re an awesome person with a wonderful personality.

shopaholicnessa719 said, in August 18th, 2009 at 4:01 am

I would date you.

IKKITOUSEN said, in August 21st, 2009 at 7:01 am

Listen man,if u really,really,really want help on this,even though i know it may sound pretentious,believe me,i’m the one that can help u i can give u some pointers but first i need to have some info about urself to begin with u have to tell me if u are interested in casual dates,short/middle term relationships or wild one night stands,and about the pic,well,smiling NEVER hurts so practice ok?contact me

ROMAN said, in August 21st, 2009 at 5:37 pm

ur probably just an asss

angelfire said, in August 24th, 2009 at 9:06 pm

YOU NEED TO SMILE IN YOUR PICTURE! lol You’re not bad looking at all; you just look sad/bored.

The number 1 thing girls are afraid of online are psychos and stalkers. So, if you’re not smiling, you may also be raising that flag.

Psychologists have done extensive testing that found people always react more postively to a smiling picture–even if they perceive the smile as fake or goofy.

Also, try taking your picture somewhere outside that reflects your interests (ballpark, trail, city scene…). It will show that you have a life–one that she might want to be a part of. Good luck!

m3star said, in August 28th, 2009 at 1:10 am

Your confidence is there, afterall you are asking a bunch of strangers for advice. I would recommend you smile. Also have someone take a picture of something you enjoy doing, running, cooking, reading, whatever it is. It will bring out your true personality. Plus, online dating can be a joke, I tried it as well and there are quite a few crappy women online. I gave up eventually. Good luck and keep your head up.

Lizzy said, in August 28th, 2009 at 1:37 am

that looks like a mug shot!

Mini Chep said, in August 29th, 2009 at 8:26 pm

You just need to let love find you, and maybe those girls aren’t the right one but there is someone out there for you. Just keep waiting and be patient and try smiling and be a little less tense and just be yourself, if they don’t like you for who you are they just aren’t good enough for you.

Ren Brown [OFFICIAL] said, in September 1st, 2009 at 6:59 am

Youre very attractive, dont doubt yourself. And, btw, Y!A is not a good place to get this sort of advice because some people here have low self esteems and so they will purposely try to make you think less of yourself.

Amanda L said, in September 2nd, 2009 at 4:17 am

you are gorgeous!
my suggestion is to get the picture in a more open place.. and maybe dont just stand there,… get a pic of u laughin with friends or smth…
i cant see why people dont like you, its prolly your personality then

white&nerdy said, in September 2nd, 2009 at 4:18 am

No offence, but your picture looks like your a seiral killer getting his mug shot taken. Maybe if you shaved, youd look more… approachable. Or at least smile. Look like your friendly or at least like you aren’t a serial killer. I mean, your pretty… cute. just get a tan and you’ll be good.

Cathy N said, in September 4th, 2009 at 6:20 am

Well, in the picture you look really masculine which would put me off a bit, and there’s no softness or anything to the expression in your photo. And frankly I wouldn’t care if you’re in good shape or have a good job. Maybe you’re coming on too strong or trying too hard?
or maybe you don’t have a sense of humour

Tahls12 said, in September 6th, 2009 at 9:15 am

how many times are you going to post this!!!

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