I understand after the marriage is a good time.

It is nice to read that you found some one that you like in the personal ads. It is best to take your time and find out about this guy ? Is he married, or going through a divorce, have kids etc. There is a Chinese proverb that says ” When you Draw a Tiger you see its skin and not its bones, and in people you know their face and not their hearts”.

Remember this proverb and don’t let your feelings lead you into sex with some one you hardly know. With Aids and all out there you owe it to your self to be prudent and not rush int to sack with this new love. Take your time and don’t rush things or you may end up regretting it big time.

Remember you know people’s face and not their hearts. If we did know people’s hearts there may have been a lot less of wreck marriages etc.