How amazing would it be if you could just start talking to any woman you saw? I’m sure a lot of guys would agree that it being able to talk to women effortlessly would open up a ton of new possibilities.

It’s actually not that hard to learn how to talk to women and in this guide I’ll show you exactly how to do it so the next time you see an attractive woman, you’re running up to her to say hi.”

The first idea to starting a chat is that you must first detach yourself from the outcome. If you’re walking up to a woman worried about what she’ll say, what she’ll do or if she’ll like you or not, then it’s going to be really hard to master this skill.

That’s because the more you think about how to start a conversation with a girl, the more likely you are not to engage into a conversation. More often than not, this ends up in a guy simply walking away from the girl, without even introducing himself to her. Don’t be that guy!

Instead, when you approach a girl, imagine it’s a game where you’re going to find out if you like the girl or not. Usually it’s you that won’t like the girl so you can’t really be scare of her not liking you in the first place. If anything, when you start a conversation for the first time with a girl, just try to have fun with it and whatever happens… happens.

The second concept to starting conversations is to have a pre-made opener for when your mind goes completely blank. If you’re like most guys, when a beautiful woman passes by, your mind just ceases to function. That’s why you need to have something to say before you go out instead of trying to think of it on the spot.

What’s a good conversation starter? Well you can always use “Hi” but that’s difficult for a lot of guys. Instead, you could ask for an opinion on something, or even comment on a situation you’re both in. For example, when I’m at the grocery store, I usually ask women what kind of pasta I should make that evening, fettucini or linguini?

As long as you say something, then you’re good. After that, you’ll want to have something interesting to say to keep the woman’s attention. A lot of guys think of stories to tell a woman and build a routine

Routines are simple annecdotes about you that let the girl know a little more about you without saying it directly. So if you would want her to know that you travel a lot, you could talk about how you’ve just returned from New Zealand.

  1. Start with a fun opener
  2. Carry on with stories that you memorized

One of the special little spices I like to use is to use a false time constraint when I talk to a girl.Whenever someone starts a conversation, you should mention that you can only talk for a millisecond and then you need to get back to your day. This is my favorite technique to use when starting conversations because then you get the girls asking you to stay longer when they find out you’re interesting.

 

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