So how do you transform the way others see you? The key is self-awareness. You’ll need to develop a good memory for monitoring your pace and effect your behavior has on others. One bad behavior can undo all the good things you have going for you.

Awareness of things in your character that both can cut off attraction and cause attraction need to be addressed. Negative behavior especially needs to be cut out. Anything negative is an attraction killer and self-awareness is key.

The art of making a woman feel totally attracted and comfortable with you is a feel as you go method. Sexual tension is created using a little good humored teasing, throwing in a little cockiness and playing hard to get.

Even if things are going along gangbusters, if you demonstrate negative behavior, you’ll be out of the big picture. If you get too mushy to fast you’ll get tossed or be in constant danger of being replaced. If you follow her lead all of the time you’ll cut off chances to exert personal authority. Eventually you get tossed into the manure heap and lose any chance to regain your dignity.

Whiners, revealing the soft side or looking for her approval every step of the way are attraction killers. Women are looking for someone who is living a c and interesting life and loving it. They are looking for strong behavior and strength in personal authority.

It’s a matter of self-preservation. If you are not doing the appropriate things to challenge her, she’ll see it as a character flaw. A woman needs to feel a notable attractive quality for their man to the point of addiction.

After you begin a relationship with a woman, if your allow yourself to become browbeat and managed, your attraction factor will tarnish. If she feels she has to do all the work to maintain a relationship, watch out.

The idea is never to let a woman feel she has entirely surmounted you. There needs to be some resistance and mystery. Every women really desires a assured Alpha male in her life.

Bookmark and Share