The thing is, you can’t make a man to commit. You can’t make any person do what they don’t want. Don’t even imagine trapping him into commitment either as that is only going to make you unhappy. As an alternative, you should work with making the connection the best it can be. That way he will make the decision to be with you, commitment is just going to happen organically.

Never oblige someone to do what they don’t wish to do. Never list to advice like, “Get yourself pregnant and he’ll commit” or “hold off on sex to get him to commit to you.” Commitment ought to be a decision made freely, that is one of the points driven home by the Double Your Dating Guide. He should have no other reason for wanting it other than he wants to be with you. Moreover, you can never guarantee a happy marriage if you trap a guy.  

So, what can you do to make a man make the decision to commit to you? First of all, you should not be focusing on commitment itself. You should instead focus on making your relationship happy, commitment is just going to follow. Make sure that he is contented in it and that you are also. You should be cautious about making it only about him and about making many concessions. This is only going to make you sad. And no man is going to wish to commit to an unhappy woman. Find that stability and let the relationship flourish there.   

Express how much you love your man. Say it and show it in all the things you do. Let him know how you are feeling, get self confidence when you do so. If he makes you blissful, show him. This is going to make him feel confident, it will make him feel masculine. Never take him for granted. But, you should not be too clingy or even more and indulge him. You should give him his legroom. Never forget that you have to love yourself too. Even when you are thinking about how to make him happy, think of your happiness too.   

You must discuss the relationship too. But, make sure you not bring up the relationship when you are scared or worried. Talk about it when you are in a calm and confident place. Again, don’t oblige commitment, if you do, you can end up ruining the relationship for good and you may never get a a 2nd chance. Also, you can’t settle for a bad relationship. Also, if it feels like he won’t ever commit and if things don’t feel right, don’t throw away more of your time.    

 

 

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