When you are dating a shy girl you are simply unable to understand them. They are very sensitive so you don’t know how to behave with them. Here are some tips to make her feel great, and how to make the relationship last.

You should determine what kind of shy your girl is. If she is vague and trails off when speaking, she is conversationally shy. If she is outgoing, but never gets past the small talk, she is cover-up shy. You might feel like she is hiding who she really is, when in fact, she may have been hurt in the past and is afraid to open up. If she withdraws when you touch her, becomes quieter or just changes herself in order to send negative signals, then she is physically shy.

Speak to her tenderly, so as not to scare her off. If you want to talk intimately about your relationship, carefully judge whether the time is appropriate and whether she seems interested or willing to converse

Try to gain her trust. Just because you haven’t earned her trust yet, it does not mean she doesn’t like you! She does! Remember, she’s already going out with you.

You must respect her boundaries. Ease into a physical relationship. You have to move slowly, embracing and honoring her boundaries. Begin with something very subtle: a brief touch to her shoulder or forearm; politely guide her to a chair/door/etc with your hand on her back; point out a piece of lint/twig in her hair and offer to remove it. Push the envelope slowly, and be aware of how she reacts.

If she is physically shy then try talking to her about it but be very, very gentle. Let her know you won’t push her and you’ll be as careful and that you would never make her do anything she doesn’t want to.

Be careful and smart, and always honor her wishes. Do not feel offended if she doesn’t warm up to you immediately, everything takes time.

Remember, shy girls are usually emotionally tender, so please be kind to them.

Dating shy girls may lead to problems of mistrust, doing most of the work, and having a lot of quiet awkward moments. It’s best if you are already a good talker.

All depends upon love, you have to love and care for her enough to coax her out of her shell.

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