Tons of men are searching for pointers on how to get a girlfriend.  Being successful with girls doesn’t have to be hard.  Yes, you will have to figure out where to meet women and how to ask a girl out, but after you master the fundamentals of dating, getting a steady girlfriend might be a bit trickier.

First, don’t just settle for a girl because you want a relationship and she happened to be there.  You don’t want to make a girl your girlfriend for this reason.  It’s not fair for either you or her.  You need to live by your convictions if you want to be the kind of guy that has a fulfilling long-term girlfriend, and really enjoys the company of the girl he is with.

To catch the eye of the woman of your dreams you might have to do a little bit of self-improvement to grow into the man that she would find attractive.  The supermodels might not exactly be rushing to bash down your door if you’re the kind of man that just plays World of Warcraft in his parents’ basement all day.

Here are two exercises that will help you.  First, I want you to make a list of the top five things that you most want in a girlfriend.  Don’t think that you have to limit yourself here.  Some examples I’ve heard before are “emotional openness,” “artistic personality,” “open to new things,” or even something as simple as “long legs.”  The critical part is not lying to yourself.  Then, jot down a list of five things that you will not tolerate from a woman no matter what.  You might come up with things like “too emotionally dependent,” “infidelity,” “militant feminists,” or  “unwilling to compromise.”  These two lists can be a compass that can guide you to your ideal girl and ensure that you don’t end up stuck with someone who will make you miserable.  Spend more time with women that show the qualities that you want in a woman.  This girl could be your next girlfriend.  On the same note, quit dating women that show the qualities that you don’t want to have in a girlfriend.  This is probably the best tip I can give you on how to get a girlfriend worth keeping.

Second, you probably have at least a vague idea about what your perfect girl is like.  This might seem a little crazy, but try to see the world from her perspective.  What sort of man do you think she would be drawn to?  How would you describe him?  Do you measure up to this?  You should not try to be something you’re not, but you might need to do some work on yourself if you just don’t measure up.  You may have to move past some personal road blocks or barriers to naturally attract the woman of your dreams.

When you finally find a woman that you really want in your life, begin to make things more serious.  It’s not hard to get a girlfriend.  You can use these tips to make sure that the woman you settle down with is one worth keeping.

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