Married for 15 years and divorced for 1 year…Now I am ready, absolutely ready to find the best online dating service that is out there.The reality is, I never thought I would feel so lonely after the divorce.  I would like to find a dating service that caters to women about my age who are looking for companionship.

Will I ever marry again…maybe but right now I am all about learning how to date again and finding a person that I enjoy spending time with. Hopefully by using a dating service I will be able to “screen” the men that I go on dates with and gain a little bit of insight as to what they are all about before I dive in for that first date.

After doing a bit of research I was surprised to find so many dating services.  My goal was to find the best online dating service and that meant seeing what kind of track record they had as far as successful matches. Most online services were willing to send me reviews from customers, and the ones with the best success records were even willing to put me in touch with a few customers so I could get direct feedback.There was no turning back. I decided to register with my top two favorites.

When I was asked to answer questions about myself and my likes and dislikes I became very aware that I really needed to focus on myself before choosing a potential date.  They told me that for the best online dating experience I would have to be honest with myself and try to get a real handle on what I was looking for in a person.The more I knew myself the easier it would be to find a match.My objective was to have the best online dating experience possible so I was willing to put in the time needed and be as sincere as I could.

Having been married before turned out to be a positive for me because I knew the things about myself that bothered me while I was married.  I wished I spoke up more, had more hobbies and interests of my own, things like that.To try and get the best online dating experience I was going to write a profile that expressed the “real” me.

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