Have you ever experienced that feeling during a date where you just know you need to make a move on the woman you are out with, but you just couldn’t find the courage to push through your nervousness?

It is something that a lot of men will deal with at some point.  In fact, I used to have this exact problem.  I could actually get a date easily, but I failed when it came time to kiss her.

First, if you are getting women to spend time with you and you think there might be something romantic there, then you are doing a lot better than most guys out there.  All you need to do is learn to make things more intimate.

The real problem is in your mind. You are probably stuck guessing “How can I be sure that she is into me?” or “What do I do if she shoots me down?”.

All of this is simply a waste of time.

There are no proven methods to know if a girl is in to you.

What you should do instead is find out quickly if she is worth your time or not.

You will just have to kiss her at a good time like at the end of the date. With a bit of practice, you can just feel when it is time to kiss her. Everything will feel heavy and you will feel it is time.

As you go in to kiss her, she will respond in one of two ways.

First, the two of you will make out and have all sorts of saucy fun.

Or second, she blows you off. If this happens, you should be happy!  You just discovered that you do not need to spend any more time with this woman and can put your time to better use on other women.

Simply say something cool such as, “Hey you can’t blame a guy for trying. ” or “Take it as a compliment. “  End the date at your first opportunity. Treat her like she is just a friend and don’t let things turn awkward.

Then, the ball is in her court. If she realizes she made a mistake, it is up to her to call you. But remember to let her make the next move. You will be spending your time dating women that are interested in becoming intimate with you.

Here is a personal example of how to kiss a girl.

I had a date with a woman who I really liked a lot. Every now and again, you meet a woman that just makes you quiver with excitement at the thought of dating her. She was one of those women.

I was only passing through town, so we went out to lunch at my favorite restaurant. After driving her home, she invited me up to show me her artwork. We relaxed on her sofa and talked.

Then things just fell silent.

I knew it was time to kiss her. I didn’t have any idea what would happen, but I went with it anyway. I let the awkward moment hang for a while, then I said, “I really wan to kiss you. “  Then I leaned over and kissed her.

At first there was some hesitation, but she quickly decided to enjoy the moment. Don’t back down if you get some intial resistance. If she doesn’t want to make out, she’ll make it clear. But don’t be surprised if you encounter a little barrier at first.

You should really stay in control of things while the two of you are making out. A lot of women will try to do what they are accustomed to the first few times you make out. Be firm and she will usually let go and follow you.

Then I smiled at her and said, “I’ve wanted to do that for quite a while.”  She seemed to like that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is my advice on how to kiss a woman. It might be frightening to lay all your cards out on the table like that, but that’s what makes dating so rewarding.

If you liked this article, please also check out Kissing a Woman, How to Flirt with a Woman, and Turning On a Woman

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