It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out partying for women.  Initiating a conversation with a girl is usually a guys goal when out partying. Then, you see the girls you want to approach.  They are in a group and one girl stands out in particular to you. You have gotten the guts to talk to the girls.  Something doesn’t seem right though. All her friends are very receptive but the woman you were focusing on isn’t giving you much attention to work with.

Don’t lose hope.  It’s not that you aren’t her type.  She has your attention and no longer needs to really work for it so, she can now just sit back relax and let you do all the worrying for gaining her interest. 

She obtains the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court.  She doesn’t want to lose her value her friends see her in so she doesn’t respond as some girl who’s a clinch.  She’d rather keep her value with her friends than show her interest in you.  The solution? Change your approach! It is important to note that this tip comes from Tiffany Taylor’s Guy Gets Girl ebook.

The Deflection Theory is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that energy and attention onto one or more of her girlfriends.  By doing so you stop giving her the attention she was getting and is going to start to wonder why you aren’t giving that attention anymore to her.The fact that you aren’t showing her any love now she is going to start to wonder what’s wrong with her.  She is going to try to now get your interest back, which is what you’ll gladly take.  See how the guy gets the girl with this? 

This technique makes her try to get your attention instead of the old you trying to get the girl.  Use this technique from Guy Gets Girl to increase your chances of being successful in the dating scene and to get the girl.

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