Comments on: Found my hub has a personal ad?

By: hemi

hemi — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 11:10:17 +0000

3 ways to go:
1– Ignore it and accept that he is a cheater…and will always be one

2– Talk about it with him..not argue, but talk….and see what is lacking in your young mariage..and for the rest of your marrige trust him…and verify he is being faithful all of the time (spying on his computer or hiring a PI from time to time)

3– Let him come home to an empty house with just the computer..with a reply from you to his personal ad…saying that he should update it to not living with anyone….

Best wishes…sorry you got a dud for a hubby..

By: Cassius

Cassius — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 02:49:25 +0000

By: ~nicole~

~nicole~ — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:03:44 +0000

I would have been out of there as soon as I saw it. You can go on pretending you never saw it. But what happens when he brings home a nice little STD for you?

By: orphan annie

orphan annie — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 05:10:56 +0000

I would ask him about it. I got the phone bill while married to my ex husband and it had abunch of 900 numbers on it. Well, of course he said he didn’t do it, but later I found some dating sites with his profile on them as well. Confront him and ask him about it. Most likely he’s a cheater.

By: PeachPie

PeachPie — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 12:21:22 +0000

I would make up a fake profile and catch his stupid cheatin ass. Make sure to get a fake picture, a cute attractive believable one, not like a supermodel or anything. Start to talk to him about things he likes for a week or so and then set up a “meeting”. LOL When you walk in he’ll be fucked! You’ll have all the proof you need. From there you head straight to the divorce lawyer.

By: J L

J L — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 02:22:39 +0000

Place you own add on the site under another name.

Contact him, chat, and make a date.

He may just be trying to stroke his ego by seeing how many hits he gets on his add. If so – no biggy. If he meets you – he is a cheat. File divorce papers the next day and thank god you found out before you got some nasty STD from the idiot.

By: I_Already_Know

I_Already_Know — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 00:05:35 +0000

You should talk to him about it. Now, understand, according to society “All men are dogs!”. I do not know your husband so I cannot speak for him. Hopefully, he will be able to justify his reason for doing it.
I have put a personal on several dating sites, just to see what would happen. I was curious. I have chatted with several women from the sites. I never acted on any. Most were in another part of the country or another part of the world. Our conversations were more about my city and theirs.

By: Kat G

Kat G — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 08:05:12 +0000

Even thought the dating site pooped up you went into it looking to see if your husband had an add. I think your gut has told you something was up. I find it odd that out of all the dating sites there are the one he was on happen to pop up. Never the less it makes no difference how you found out. If it was me I would save his profile to a disk. After that I would be stopping at the bank and withdrawing any funds. Then looking on line for cheap air fair as I would be looking to get away and un-stress myself.

Your husband is a cheater as you know. Even if he has not met anyone I would not let this slide. He is out looking for sex encounters and who knows what he is going to bring home and give to you. My thoughts are who cares why he did this. He would do it to who ever he was with. IT’S NOT YOU.. Please know that.

Since your only married a year I would cut my losses as what he has is a sickness and will not change. When you leave him a note after your gone sign it from your room mate.

By: Julia

Julia — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 03:10:17 +0000

Sweetie, if you could hold yourself together to do some investigating here I would advise you to do that. I would probably get on that site anominously to see if he would meet you out somewhere and then you will know how far he would go to betray you on a physical level. I am sorry but as his wife I would need to know that. He is evidently up to no good and I would have to give him all the freedom in the world to hang himself to know who I am really married to. I know this will be very hard to do without going off on him and pointing out what you discovered but informing him now he will only cover everything up. You need some support here so if you have someone that you truly trust I would go to them and let them help you. I can only imagine how you must feel but there are things you need to know about your husband at this point in order to go on with him for the rest of your life. Maybe marriage counseling if you think you would want that. Take care and be strong.

By: eillem123

eillem123 — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 21:19:11 +0000

I’d ask him about it – see what he says, then he either takes it off, works really hard at regaining your trust or you call a lawyer and get rid of him.