Are you ready to get into online dating? The internet has revolutionized meeting women for unattractive men.  The average guy walks into his local nightclub and gets turned down flat by all of the hot girls.  Well, modern technology has leveled the playing field.  These days you can chat to a beautiful girl online while she takes the time to get to know the real you.

So how do you meet a beautiful girl on the internet?  The key to success is knowing how to flirt.  Online dating may have skyrocketed your chances of having a girlfriend, but you still need to know how to interact with women.

If you spend more time around a computer than people, then this may be a foreign concept for you.   Flirting is a basic human interaction that shows a person that you are interested in them.  Face to face, people flirt with body language.  Online, we flirt with the written word.

So why is flirting a great way to help you meet beautiful women online?  Well, think about what happens when you first see a stunning girl in a nightclub.

Okay, let’s assume you are not just gazing lustfully at her across the bar and have actually gone up introduce yourself.  You think of a great opening line … and freeze up.  Instead of saying hi, you are now dribbling down your shirt.  If this is a regular occurrence for you, then flirting on the internet means you can hide behind a keyboard and not feel so exposed.  You can relax and think about what you are going to say.

Flirting can also help you create sexual tension.  Without it she is going to think you are that nice friend she chats online to about all her problems.  And she will probably think you are gay.  If you get stuck in this category, then your chances of having sex just went out the window.  You are going to need sexual tension to take this relationship further.  A relationship might be built on love, but without pure lust it’s not getting out of the starting blocks.

Ok, so how does a dating beginner learn how to flirt?.  The following tips are to help you get started:

  • Confidence – In a nightclub you are competing against better looking men.  Not online!  Get her attention by being confident.  Women are attracted to confidence – just don’t get too cocky.
  • Make Her Laugh – A close second behind confidence is humor.  Make her feel good and she will keep coming back for more.
  • Tease Her – This one takes a bit of practice but is a hot technique.  Tease her a little after you can get her to laugh.  If you are nice to her, then she will think you are a good “friend”.  Tease her to create sexual tension.
  • Ask Questions – Keep your responses simple and ask questions .  Be interested in what she has to say.
  • Compliment – Be sincere but not phoney.
  • Be Brief – Don’t turn a chat session into a autobiography.  Be brief to create mystery.

So who do you flirt with?  The internet has opened up your options to almost every continent on the planet.  Why not flirt with a bonnie lass from Scotland?  Or how about a hot Russian woman from Moscow?  And don’t forget about those tanned Aussie women down under.  The world is your dating oyster.

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