Personal ads, in my opinion… are the BEST way to meet new guys… Try Match.com … put up and ad ( pay for the service so you can contact people )…. make sure you have a GREAT photo of you or two… ( because guys first interest is always visual )… and then put up an honest, well thought out profile… but don’t put so much information that it’s a turn-off… and try not to say the same thing everybody else does “I like walks on the beach, eating out… blah blah blah”…. I would put what you actually DO with your time… what TV you like… if you cook or not…. and then you can search the profiles of other people and *wink* at them to break the ice if you’re interested… do A LOT of that… don’t just wait for them to do it… and go out with anybody that says yes ( unless you really find them repulsive )… because you can’t know someone just from a picture and a paragraph… do lunch, coffee, cocktails… and see where it goes… you might also try chatting for free on gay.com… have a pic and profile there too..!… and you’ll meet LOTS of guys… have fun

alot of people flirt thru the ads , but oftens its more of a tease than whats implied .

i doubt its you.they are just not for you.try personal ads if you want to you could get a couple of friends out of it if not a boyfriend.