i also found many many scammers on match.com and had many many removed but scammers do this for work full time and are pros. all sites can only do so much. you are the one that needs to do the homework. insist that both of you have a cam with no excuses.invest if its long distance in a skype cam and also its phone system. i call china for 2 pennys a minute to my chinese wife i met on cherryblossoms.com. never send any money for any reason no matter how sincere or sad it sounds. if they ever mention using western union assume they are a thief.remember all ids and picures can be fake or forged or stolen.