1. Ask questions
Asking questions is important to find out about the other person. For example, you can use words like, what, where and how. This kind of words may not lead to a simple yes or no answer. Instead, they give the other person the opportunity to give a fuller answer. Apart from that you should ask more specific questions at certain times. For example, if she says ‘I will call you soon ‘ you might want to ask something like ‘ When should I expect a call ‘. Demands for more specific information will avoid misunderstandings!
2. Reality checks
Before you judge the other person aware that your beliefs and your values are based on reality that doesn ‘t mean your beliefs and values are right or wrong. We are all different and your date’s beliefs and values may not be with you. The knowledge and understanding of these will show you more flexibility and understanding for others, including your data.
3. Avoid assumptions
Unfortunately, as it is is something we do very much. So, instead of thinking ‘he / she is probably on ‘, Ask! It’s better to find out than to do guess. And if the other person doesn ‘t seem to respond to you immediately, it is not ‘ t mean that he or she isn ‘t interested. Maybe they just need to get to know you better before they demonstrate any kind of interest.
4. Build knowledge
Knowledge is the existence of trust, harmony and cooperation in a relationship. If you have a report with a person you do, they will feel like your ally, your partner. You can create a report by commonalitites! You can do this by using their language, breathing, gestures, facial expressions and voice.
5. Be self-confident
The trust can open many doors for you. If you are sure the people have more confidence in you and your skills. Even if you don’t do you consider yourself a confident person …. act as if you are!
