Ok guys, do you sometimes get the feeling that you just can’t be natural when it comes to talking to women? Are you a complete ’open mouth insert foot’ and ending up frustrated in your romantic life because you keep turning women off when you talk to them? Then you see other men who don’t seem to be any smarter than you or attractive and women just seem to be totally into them. How does that work? Well, if you are eager to learn what you want to know about talking to women then here are ten ways to get your act together:

To start with you need to stop trying to impress her. Women aren’t interested in you trying to make up their mind for them in regards to what they should think about you. If you really want to be able to talk to a woman you better just relax and let her decide what she thinks about you.

The second thing you need to get under control is keeping your compliments about how hot she is to yourself. Trust me, if she’s nice to look at, she knows she is. She’s had guys telling her for her whole life, so what’s the bigger if you tell her what she is probably tired of hearing? If you must tell her something nice, find something about her demeaner or something she is wearing.

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The third thing is that you need not fear to get close to her. This means that you touch her lightly on the arm when you are communicating or at least touch one of her possessions like her purse or her mobile phone. You see, women have this kind of radar and they can tell if you are not comfortable. Then they get uncomfortable and suddenly they just make up their mind that they don’t like feeling like that and they book.

The fourth thing you have to learn is boundaries. If it looks like a women is ready to wrap up the conversation and you turn into that needy guy who tries to keep her interest she is going to shut you off like a light switch. Think about it, she could be preoccupied or maybe she is just a little uneasy because she is actually interested in you. Either way, if you act desperate she is going to split.

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The fifth thing to learn is the art of polite put down. for instance, you mention something about her that is negative or even unattractive. Just do it in a non-threatening manner and don’t be cruel or critical. This will cause her to feel that she has to make up for it and before too long she will be all over you trying to win your attention.

Sixth, you must learn to create sexual tension. Now this is a thing which puts the unfortunate nice guys out in the cold when it comes to girls. You see, physical attraction between a guy and a female requires some dissonance for it to be effective. Which means that you disagree with her and even test her in a playful sort of way.

The seventh thing is comfort building. The problem is that a lot of guys attempt to achieve this by catering to her every desire and being a sweetheart. Sorry, that will only make her feel really unsafe. Why? Because a girl feeling comfortable is all about her having confidence in your capacity to keep her safe, being a nice boy just won’t get the job done when it comes to that.

That brings us to the eighth key to attracting women and that is being the bad boy rather than the nice boy. You see, a woman is not drawn to the nice boy because she is worried that he won’t be able to make her feel safe. Being the tough guy is going to cause her to feel safe around you and because she feels comfortable she is going to let down her defenses.

Number nine, take initiative. Women are a lot better at being easy on guys for taking action or offending them than they are to tolerate a man who is slow or uncertain of what he wants. If you delay until you are sure of what she thinks of you before you take initiative, don’t be surprised if she ends up being swept up by a guy who will.

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Finally, pursue the woman who is a bit of a challenge and who may not appear that she truly wants a guy in her life. Plenty of guys are just too scared of an independent woman. This only means that there is slimmer competition so if you are the person who takes the initiative to pursue the seemingly out of reach woman you are probably the man who is going to get to have her.

Just be sure to use each one of these principles and don’t neglect them unless you want to wind up having soda and pie with the nice guys on Friday nights. Good Luck!

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